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Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Almost done!

Car is about 80% packed. Trouble is about 90% of the space is gone. No problem. The inside of our car come vacation time follows different rules of space and distance. A little warping of spacetime in the back seat never hurt anyone.

The kids have had a pretty big TV day, but we've been good about limiting it the last few days so we don't feel too bad about it.

It's somehow appropriate that this day full of packing, taking care of the kids, and running last minute errands...is our Anniversary. Like our life, it aint glamorous, but it's what we've chosen and what we love. We love our family, we love our trips, we love our lives. 9 years of marriage. I suppose a lot of people have come and gone in that time, but we're just getting started, people.

Steph, I love you. With us lately it's been more about wild twists and turns and less about ups and downs - just the way I like my roller coasters. I wouldn't trade our life - or any part of it - for anything. I have been blessed to share the last 9 years of marriage with you and am looking forward to about 90 more.

Next year is 10 years and somebody better throw us a freaking awesome party and babysit the kids for a whole week.

We'll check in from some hotel somewhere sometime soon. Wish us luck!

Matt

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Packing for six

Oh man, this is nuts.

Preparations continue for our departure early Thursday morning. Tomorrow we somehow have to find the time and the space to pack everything the whole family needs for a week and a half into the Suburban (thanks mom for letting us borrow it).

The plan is this: We're going to keep the girls up really late tomorrow night. Then we hope to drag them out of bed, slap some clothes on them and hit the road. Breakfast in the car. Lunch in the car. Stopping as little as possible. Hopefully the early start combined with the late night will be conducive to them doing a little napping on the way.

What they don't know is that we're planning to go to Lake Winnepesaukah for the afternoon - hopefully we make good time and arrive in Chattanooga by about 3 or so, which will give them a good 5 hours to work off steam. Like Winnie also has a special discount for kids on Thursdays so it makes sense. Steph and I can't wait to see their reaction - because they loved it last summer, but we've been saying since then that we probably would never be able to go back there again. It's gonna blow their minds. Gonna be a little dicey with the weather - usual pop-up storms predicted and a high of 94 that day. Ouch. But, we'll keep 'em hydrated.

The second day, a more relaxed morning in the hotel, and then we're hoping to stop for lunch at a road-food icon, The Varsity in Atlanta. That day will be a longer day of driving to get down to Jacksonville to visit the family there.

It may be a subject I've covered before, but it bears repeating - my stance on the in-car DVD player. I'm a bit of a stick-in-the-mud. I will not allow my kids to watch videos the whole way on a car trip like this. I love travel, I love the road. I am what they call a road geek, endlessly entertained by something as boring as highway signs and mile markers. And while I don't expect my kids to share the same dorky fascination, I do expect them to develop a basic appreciation for the landscapes and sights in this country. So, the kids have had it repeated endlessly that they do not get to watch movies the whole time. I'm sorry, but as we enter Tennessee and head up Jellico mountain, they need to look around. As we drive through a major city like Atlanta, the TV will definitely go off so they can look at the skyline. AND, there will be "no-tv" times at other times as well, because we sometimes need to have quiet time, and sometimes we need to listen to music. I have prepared my iPod with playlists of "Mommy and Daddy music" that I think Faith and Mari might enjoy - could be a disaster, but we're gonna try.

And yes, even though Faith has learned that saying "boring" will get her in trouble, there are some stretches of this drive that are so topographically challenged (I'm looking at you, Georgia) that even *I* will allow the girls to zone out to a mindless video. I'm old-fashioned, but not cruel.

May not get to post tomorrow - if not, look for updates on the trip in a few days. Thanks for stopping by - and everyone check out the comments we got on the VBS post below. COOL!!!

Matt

P.S. - almost forgot - cracked the 200 pound mark at last - down to 199.6. Never thought I would get there by vacation. Time to gain it all back now! =)

Friday, June 12, 2009

VBS....check.

Done.

Well, there's the little program tonight still to do, but all the hard work is done. Went well. Thank goodness AM was there to take the lead with the older kids - he knew them a lot better.

Kudos to Augsburg Fortress - the songs this year were much better than last year's stuff...although why they think the CD has to have a faux-hip-hop vibe I will never understand. So glad I didn't listen to the CDs until after the fact.

Faith has been positively obSESSED with the songs - she can't stop singing them. Which is a good thing. Glad she's interested and cares. It's been a wonderful experience for everyone involved.

So that means that the final hurdle has been jumped. Vacation is right in front of me. A long drive (which is something I love even without a destination), a trip to the family in Jacksonville, and then the beach awaits. 3 years it's been. That fact keeps blowing me away. 3 years, and it seems like so much longer.

We put together a spreadsheet to help us keep ahead of prep tasks for the trips, and we're sticking to it quite well. The house is in decent shape, and with any luck the last couple of days of packing won't be frantic.

Haven't mentioned the weight for a while - I was stuck at around 207 for a few weeks, and was perfectly happy to do so. Started getting a little lax around dinner time, but as long as I wasn't GAINING, I had no guilt. Well, I have been a little better the last few days and the bottom dropped out - just now I was 201.4, which is probably a little bit lower than accurate, but it does give me a little extra motivation to see if I can hit 200 by the time we leave. Gonna be tough...lots of 'hard to eat well' type events coming up. BUT, nice to say that I've finally passed the 50 pound mark.

Everything is well. Keep checking in!

Matt

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Endings and Beginnings

It's been a pretty long time since I've posted! It's been a pretty tumultuous 4-5 months for me, though, as I've been trying to decide what path to take with my career. While I absolutely love almost all aspects of the school I've been teaching part-time in for 5 years, I was aware of the fact that the schedule was going to be changing in such a way that it would make me be home even less with my young, but growing WAY too quickly, kids.

The point of my going to a part-time job in the first place was to be able to be home more with the kids. So I started exploring my options. To make a very long story short, I have taken a position as a Spanish teacher with a small company that contracts to preschools to teach Spanish. I am SO excited about this new venture! I will pretty much be able to make my own schedule, within certain parameters. Better yet, I will be able to put my weekly hours in to 3 or so days a week as opposed to having to spread them out amongst 5. So I'll have 2 to 2 1/2 whole days off per week with the kids.

This coming school year is Faith's last when she'll be home for even part of the day (half-day kindergarten). It might be the last year that the twins are home all day. Our preschool has a 2 year old class (we're not sure if we'll send them at 2 yrs old or wait until they're 3). I am painfully aware of just how fast "it" really does go and want to enjoy this while I can.

My amazing colleagues at my, now former, school who took time off from their careers to stay home while their children were young have all told me that I will not regret it. All I know is that I am so sad to be leaving my friends but that I didn't feel one single ounce of regret as I was telling everyone yesterday.

I truly feel very much at peace with my decision. The new job is a pay cut for sure (at I was only working 35% of full time at my old school in the first place) but Matt and I feel we are aware of all of the repercusions of this and have a solid plan.

For now, though, it's on to VBS and on to preparing for our great trips!
Steph

Sunday, June 7, 2009

New Family Picture

Observe new family picture above - I demoted the video bar thanks to my many frustrations on YouTube.

Free Mojito to the first person to tell me what's wrong in the new family pic...

Matt

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Switching hats

Just had a nice day at home with all the kids. Really, watching everyone without any help is not difficult at all...provided you don't have to GO anywhere. The twins have reached an age where they are content to crawl from toy to toy for long stretches of time. It's more work keeping the big kids entertained. But it was so nice to just laze around and have the twins crawling all over me.

Getting ready now for VBS - I'm one of the music instructors there. Frankly a little stressful since the whole thing is still something I'm learning. Never went to VBS myself and so I am still getting a feel for the expectations and the vibe. Last year went pretty well, so I have more confidence this time around. But this is the absolute last 'hurdle' between us and vacation time.

The challenge for us is going to be keeping up on preparation tasks for the BIG trip...we leave next Thursday for Jacksonville and Hilton Head, we'll be coming back to Cincinnati on the next next Monday in the afternoon...and then leaving on the big trip that Friday. Not a lot of turnaround time, so we are going to make an intentional effort to keep up on things BEFORE we go.

Sooo...yeah, things are going to get interesting here soon. This is a good time to check in often...or sign up for updates.

Thanks for checking in!

Matt

Thursday, June 4, 2009

Fellow teachers:

When August comes all those fools with 'real' jobs will be dancing on our faces, but for now, this is our time. Bask. Bask. Soak it all up. Crank up your favorite celebratory music and feel the release as the stench of stupid questions washes away for a couple months. Once more, you made it. Say and do something rude that you can't do in front of students. Something immature, something inappropriate. It's okay, no one's watching.

Seriously, though. If you are a teacher, you've earned the feeling you have right now. You earn it every day. Enjoy it. Feel good. And I'll see you back here in August with a high-five, ready to do it all again. Because even though right now, walking away from this job is a small slice of heaven...we all know it's the best job out there and we wouldn't trade it for anything else.

Happy summer!

Matt

Sunday, May 31, 2009

By the way

Click all those pics for larger versions - especially the weird one of Hannah - needs to be full size for the total effect.

Matt

Saturday, May 30, 2009

MORE PICS - Can you believe it?

PICS!!! Lots of 'em! Three whole posts worth - scroll down to see more!

A couple really cute pics of Hannah and Mari:


MORE PICS - Can you believe it?

More pics - and scroll down for even more below - enjoy!

How can anyone say that these babies look the same?


VERY happy Robby!


Sisters on the slide:


Faith and Mari, dad's RV across the lake in the background: